Not sure if anyone was looking for me or not but I apologize for not posting in the last week. We were packing and tossing and packing and tossing things until the movers arrived. Then what I predicted would happen--that is we would have way more ish than quoted (thanks Mom) did happen and mom nearly canceled the move like we would be able to find cheaper ones to move across country before I needed to start work. They loaded and we passed out that evening. We woke up on Saturday and cleaned everything within an inch of it's life, loaded my car for the driver--wasn't driving 12 hours with mom after the last few days--and donated more stuff to neighbors and strangers. We flew out that afternoon after getting a ride from one of my former coworkers and honestly flight went great, rental car was fine, staff was good and one night at sketchy hotel aside before moving into much better digs and I was feeling good about life. That is until we WENT to the house that mom decided she wanted and didn't make it in the door five feet before she threw LITERALLY the mother of all tantrums--no pun there it was just fucking epic. Because of the supposed delivery date from the movers (I saw supposedly because yeah it hasn't happened yet but I didn't know that on Sunday) we had exactly 48-72 hours to get out of the contract with house from hell, find another one and someone willing to let us move in early. Well let me say that God is good because we found a nicer house that was MUCH cheaper, nicely renovated and bigger so mom's stuff should all fit and what doesn't she has allegedly decided to sell. It doesn't have a full driveway or a garage but considering what we are saving on the house that did have a garage and not much else I am willing to find builders and finance a garage. Plus what I can tell from all sites regarding building a garage we would get a significant chunk of that back upon selling the house. It doesn't seem to have central ac but the fan from the heating unit made this place kinda nippy the other day so we'll see how that works later. Neighbors all seem friendly as well and it's far enough from my job that it feels like I have to drive (it's like 7 to 10 minutes lol) but seriously walking distance from a church, hairdresser, school, two grocery stores, a big box store and a nail shop--among other things. Let me just say we saw a lot of houses in two days and was sad by one that was so freaking cute on the outside it was ridiculous only to go inside and wonder if munchkins had lived there and how they could possibly have seen the tiny area next to the kitchen as a bedroom--it was barely big enough to turn around in.
I have been by my office, gotten my id, parking pass, met with the folks who helped hire me, talked to a lot of people and have a very busy week next week but I am very excited about this opportunity. I will be more excited when the furniture is here and the security system is installed so mom can quit jumping every time it sounds like something is brushing against the house and she can quit waking me up at every single solitary noise she hears. Last night was the worst. I got kicked in my lower leg cause she swore she saw something on the ground crawling. She can't describe it and didn't want to look for it but fell back asleep within minutes of injuring me.
In other news my hair and I are fighting. Not sure if it's getting adjusted to the temperature or water differences here or what but I feel like a puff ball. It's super soft but is not holding in any moisture at all right now. Trying to take care of my hair without all of my products is a pain too. Hoping desperately that the movers come tomorrow so we can have beds and some privacy even though I'm pretty sure we'll be sleeping in the front until we get the house secured more than it is right now. Just wanted to give a shout to say I'm okay. Still a bit tired but okay.
How's things for all of you?
Good to know you are ok.
ReplyDeleteYeah we're okay. Just waiting for things to arrive so we can start the hopefully not as long process of unpacking as packing.
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